I returned on Sunday evening from a quick four day trip to Boston. As part of a group of 150 fellow Reality church members, I got to explore the city from Charlestown to the South Boston and many a neighborhood in between with a more manageable group of 5 friends. The picture below was taken in the hip, artsy neighborhood of South End just outside a grand brick building that had been renovated into art studios. Boston is brimming with butterflies and this one waited patiently for me to get just the right shot. Shortly after snapping this photo we met one of the artists, Silvia Lopez Chavez, who rents space on the fourth floor. We climbed the stairs to her loft, ooh’d and ah’d over her truly extraordinary work, and learned all about the inspiration behind her paintings. A few days later we’d return to the ground floor of this building for dinner and drinks at a little place called Beehive…a place I’d frequent for sure if I lived in the neighborhood.
With some free time to fill on Sunday morning before the evening flight, we made like true San Franciscans and found the biggest, greenest park, the beautiful Boston Common, to lounge lazily in. It was a cool 80 some degrees over the weekend – perfect weather to enjoy America’s oldest park for a few hours.
It was my first trip to the East Coast and while I boarded the plane excited to return home to San Francisco, I realized that the pedestal I’d proudly placed this city I call home on was a bit shorter than it was prior to my time in Boston. If you’ve ever been there (I’m sure you have…I think, or at least I feel, like the last person to experience the East Coast) you know the pristine appearance and sense of historical prestige about the town. What can easily be identified as the education capital of the country, if not the world, is a stark contrast to the City by the Bay. Their streets are immaculately clean (no watching your step over unsightly piles of feces.) I mean, people don’t even throw their old gum or cigarette butts on the ground. Manicured lawns and lush greenery line the sidewalks of every block. Even the pigeons are clean. People are well presented, courteous, and mostly keep to themselves as opposed to wearing their every thought on their sleeve (or the bus stop shelter) as in San Francisco. And from a single girl’s perspective the men there seem to be a bit more…qualified? Is that the word I’m looking for? In any case, my girlfriends agreed.
One local assured us, if you do happen to come to Boston without the desire to go back to school, you will soon acquire it. It’s in the air here. So my brain got to thinking…what if this food styling thing doesn’t work out? What if I’m not doing enough to prepare myself now for a successful transition? What if I get out on my own and it’s a giant flop? One mistake and your likely to not get hired again for a long time…if ever again. That’s a lot of pressure. What’s plan B? What else am I qualified for? Maybe I should think about getting my MBA? Would that do anything for me practically other than put me thousands in debt? Ultimately I don’t think a graduate degree is the answer. Although I can’t say I haven’t been researching programs for the past 48 hours. It WAS a good motivator to get creative and really get behind the development of my little business that is, well, me.
Had the people been a bit “friendlier” part of me would probably be considering the possibility of making a move someday. But from what I gather it would take years to develop a community there that could rival the closeness I have with people here. But who knows…maybe Boston will be my plan B.
On a more lighthearted note, to my absolute delight I came across a printed issue of Sweet Paul magazine in Anthropologie on posh Newbury Street. For a moment I felt famous and dropped 24 bones for an issue. And whilst shopping on Charles Street in Beacon Hill I came across these beautiful hostess aprons from Ice Milk Aprons…completely in love.
Til next time!













